Frankly I have to say kissing is almost a worse form of cheating. I’ve been cheated on both ways. Emotinally and phisically, kissing and sex… and the emotinally and the kissing hurt the most.
JillC on
December 31st, 2007 12:07 am
yeah i have to agree with you sam…cheating in general absolutely sucks…nothing feels worse…but emotional cheating stings pretty bad..and i find that is the hardest part to get over, just my opinion.
Sam M. on
December 31st, 2007 3:54 am
I always wonder where you can draw the line between having just a small crush on someone else, and where you are emotinally cheating. Because i’d be a filthy liar if i said i dont think other people are as beautiful (if not sometimes more) than my girlfriend. And i know she does too. But i’d never leave her for them. But I somtimes feel guilty having emotinal attachments to other people
JillC on
December 31st, 2007 7:44 pm
well i think it depends on how involved these emotional attachments are…if it is a harmless crush then i don’t think it is a big deal but having secret chats/meetings i think is crossing the line….afterall harmless crushes can add spice to the bedroom aspect of a relationship
Sam M. on
December 31st, 2007 9:45 pm
Hmm. That makes me think. Would being overly flirty with other guys she just met over the internet be considered cheating? Because if it is, I may have to rethink my current relationship.
JillC on
January 1st, 2008 5:39 am
hmmm…okay i don’t want to judge that whole situation cuz i am in a position where i meet tons of guys online cuz of the show but if i did not work in a field where you have need to be approachable and chatty then i don’t know how cool i would be with my partner-in-crime flirting online with someone they don’t even know…and even worse have just ‘met’ online! not trying to steer you in any direction here but if i were you i would sit and think about…does it bug you? would you do it to her? is she open about who she is talking to? where did she meet these guys…that sort of stuff…but that is just me!!
i don’t want to be some sort of homewrecker who goes around preaching my beliefs and trying to make you ’see the light’ and break up with your gf…it’s just i would think twice about it that’s all
hope you had a great new years!
J
This is the most horrible thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m still having nightmares about it. And when I wake up, I tell him. ‘Cause I’m still with him, deep love is there. I know Jill, that’s fucking impossible to understand without knowing all the details, the circumstances, what the guy was feeling about the relationship at the moment… Believe me I’ve asked a lot of questions! Everything you never thought you’d be able to go through, when it happens, is a very humbling experience. So there is hope …Sometimes. But trust takes a long of time to really grow strong. Fuck! I can’t stop talking!
JillC on
February 2nd, 2008 2:47 am
hey Veya
i understand that not everyone thinks the same way about cheating and it is hard for me to judge if i am not in the same position as you and don’t know the whole story but don’t the relentless dreams drive you crazy?? that would be the most annoying thing to me cuz it would just keep reminding me that my trust was completely shattered and that is the hardest thing to get back
do you think you made the right decision?? if so then i guess you will have to actively work on the trust thing to make things work in the long run
yeah exactly. well my subconscious often works against me, because i am a very imaginative person. i believe that with mutual trust, respect and love we’ll be able to get through this because it’s really something that we are getting through together. If i did not think i had made the right choice i would have called you to… help me forget him! muahaha PS: sorry to have made you work on my other replys, i really say what i mean all the time LOL Take care xox Veya
JillC on
February 3rd, 2008 4:50 am
it’s not work at all…i love hearing what viewers think and feel about the topics we cover!
please keep them coming!
J
Veya on
February 3rd, 2008 10:04 pm
i know that’s now what i meant ! i just thought you were trying to calm the atmosphere when i told the other guy to shut up but maybe not lol
Matt on
March 25th, 2008 11:06 pm
I think the best indicator if someone is the type to cheat is that he or she lies. Does he or she have a pattern of lying? Or are there things they say that just don’t add up? I had one experience with that with the first girl I ever dated, and I learned my lesson very well.
JillC on
March 26th, 2008 5:34 pm
i think another indicator is when your partner (who is cheating) becomes suspicious/jealous of you when you aren’t doing anything out of the ordinary or acting any different…sort of like they are projecting their own guilt
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Frankly I have to say kissing is almost a worse form of cheating. I’ve been cheated on both ways. Emotinally and phisically, kissing and sex… and the emotinally and the kissing hurt the most.
yeah i have to agree with you sam…cheating in general absolutely sucks…nothing feels worse…but emotional cheating stings pretty bad..and i find that is the hardest part to get over, just my opinion.
I always wonder where you can draw the line between having just a small crush on someone else, and where you are emotinally cheating. Because i’d be a filthy liar if i said i dont think other people are as beautiful (if not sometimes more) than my girlfriend. And i know she does too. But i’d never leave her for them. But I somtimes feel guilty having emotinal attachments to other people
well i think it depends on how involved these emotional attachments are…if it is a harmless crush then i don’t think it is a big deal but having secret chats/meetings i think is crossing the line….afterall harmless crushes can add spice to the bedroom aspect of a relationship
Hmm. That makes me think. Would being overly flirty with other guys she just met over the internet be considered cheating? Because if it is, I may have to rethink my current relationship.
hmmm…okay i don’t want to judge that whole situation cuz i am in a position where i meet tons of guys online cuz of the show but if i did not work in a field where you have need to be approachable and chatty then i don’t know how cool i would be with my partner-in-crime flirting online with someone they don’t even know…and even worse have just ‘met’ online! not trying to steer you in any direction here but if i were you i would sit and think about…does it bug you? would you do it to her? is she open about who she is talking to? where did she meet these guys…that sort of stuff…but that is just me!!
i don’t want to be some sort of homewrecker who goes around preaching my beliefs and trying to make you ’see the light’ and break up with your gf…it’s just i would think twice about it that’s all
hope you had a great new years!
J
This is the most horrible thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m still having nightmares about it. And when I wake up, I tell him. ‘Cause I’m still with him, deep love is there. I know Jill, that’s fucking impossible to understand without knowing all the details, the circumstances, what the guy was feeling about the relationship at the moment… Believe me I’ve asked a lot of questions! Everything you never thought you’d be able to go through, when it happens, is a very humbling experience. So there is hope …Sometimes. But trust takes a long of time to really grow strong. Fuck! I can’t stop talking!
hey Veya
i understand that not everyone thinks the same way about cheating and it is hard for me to judge if i am not in the same position as you and don’t know the whole story but don’t the relentless dreams drive you crazy?? that would be the most annoying thing to me cuz it would just keep reminding me that my trust was completely shattered and that is the hardest thing to get back
do you think you made the right decision?? if so then i guess you will have to actively work on the trust thing to make things work in the long run
yeah exactly. well my subconscious often works against me, because i am a very imaginative person. i believe that with mutual trust, respect and love we’ll be able to get through this because it’s really something that we are getting through together. If i did not think i had made the right choice i would have called you to… help me forget him! muahaha
PS: sorry to have made you work on my other replys, i really say what i mean all the time LOL Take care xox Veya
it’s not work at all…i love hearing what viewers think and feel about the topics we cover!
please keep them coming!
J
i know that’s now what i meant ! i just thought you were trying to calm the atmosphere when i told the other guy to shut up
but maybe not lol
I think the best indicator if someone is the type to cheat is that he or she lies. Does he or she have a pattern of lying? Or are there things they say that just don’t add up? I had one experience with that with the first girl I ever dated, and I learned my lesson very well.
i think another indicator is when your partner (who is cheating) becomes suspicious/jealous of you when you aren’t doing anything out of the ordinary or acting any different…sort of like they are projecting their own guilt