We all know how steamy things can be when you first start dating someone new. It’s hard to tear yourselves away from each other. The sizzle will ever end, right? But what about when you’ve been dating awhile and the novelty wears off. When things start to…fizzle? What do you do to keep the fire blazing? After all who hasn’t been in a relationship where eventually you don’t want to have sex every single night using the same techniques or moves (yawn) as the night before. It happens to pretty much all couples at some point or another.

So, how do you keep your partner hooked?

I guess everyone has different ways techniques to get over the humping hump, but in my opinion a little surprise can go a long way. I am totally one of those girls who can get bored easily if things become stagnant. So my advice? Surprise your partner. It doesn’t have to be an elaborate thing (although I think pretty much every girl will tell you that a little romantic gesture will go a really, REALLY long way) just something simple and from the heart. Or something spontaneous, sweaty and a little rough, for all those girls out there who roll like I do I mean it doesn’t take a lot of effort to throw on a cute outfit (I am speaking to the girls right now since we are talking about creating a mood, not killing it by your guy surprising you dressed in a teddy) and surprise your boy the minute he walks in the door. Don’t think for one minute that that little effort won’t make him weak in the knees and put a little spice back into the relationship.

But what about the girls who may be a little more timid? Easy. All you have to do is use your imagination. After all you know your boy better then I do, think of something that he loves to do or really gets him going. It doesn’t have to be sexual. One of the best surprises I have ever got was my boyfriend at the time picked me up from work, and knowing how much I love to play poker and down a few Cadbury Cream Eggs, brought me to his place where he had his poker table all set up with candles and a game ready to go with wine and said eggs ready for consuming!! It took hardly any effort but meant the world to me. And don’t think for one second that that boy didn’t get rewarded that night for such a sweet gesture!

So ya see? It doesn’t have to be an overtly sexual gesture to put a little spice back into your union, just take into consideration what your partner likes and use a little imagination and trust me it will go farther then you think!

Have fun you naughty vixens!

Jill

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