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Hi Guys Love the Show!
I think it depends on the guy and if he knows what he is doing, i am a black guy and am over average and like you said in the episode they are showers and growers. I my self am a grower, before it’s time to do the act i will be a good 3″ and when time comes it growers up 7.5″. But back to the point, the girls i have been with will let me know that am big or just right,i never had any bad reviews on i way performed and they always came back wanting more. I just think the guys who are over average gets overly confident lose it and forgets what they doing and not feeling for how the sex are, then you women knows the rest.
So my thing is; guys take your time, enjoy the sex and you and she will be happy and not hurting the next day.
P.S love u Stacey P big fan.
Aw thanks Mr. Show-er!
Its not only that though…. guys who are bigger typically think they don’t really have to do anything… and its not like a stripper pole you can’t just twirl around like a helicopter then sit on it… ;P
I agree with you though… basically its not the size of the boat it’s the motion in the ocean!!!
Thanks for the shoutout and the feedback!!!
Hope you have a safe happy humpy holiday!
SP
Anohter episode that people (especially guys) would love to find out more about but don’t have an outlet to get direct info from. THESE are the episodes that will fill the male viewer base.
PS, my hammer is average but im a master carpenter!…
dp
hahaha dp the carpenter!! loves it!
glad to hear you are liking the show…it is so encouraging to get this sort of feedback!
J
I’m 18, and at 8″ long and 6″ around, I can confidentley say I’m well above average.(Especially for a white guy?)
I’ve been this size since sophomore year, the same year I lost my virginity.
Needless to say, a reputation spread, and most of the female population knew about my ‘perfectly’ sized eqipment.
This lead to more sex, more experience, and definatley more CONFIDENCE.
So I guess what I’m trying to say is yes, a bigger penis does give you more confidence. You have the comfort of knowing you can satisfy most women.
Now there is one downfall, and that is the women who find it too big. I’ve been warmed up to point of no return, only to hear “there is no way that’ll fit in me!”
TALK ABOUT BLUE BALLS!
My question is when does it become way too small/big, and what is ‘perfect’?
Please include length and girth.
Dear Long-Schlong…
I myself can’t really take on much more than a 8″ with a 3″ gurth…. otherwise I won’t be able to pee for days…and anything under 6.5″ long and 2″ round is a snooze fest if they don’t know how to use it…. that’s me personally though.
If you find yourself with someone who Does have a smaller box, the best thing to do is let her go on top so she can control the amount of penetration… also LUBE LUBE LUBE!!!
OR… take it REALLY slow and getchur self in a groove to slowly work it in… if a baby can come outta those things then I’m sure your loaf of bread can get toasted….
6″ sideways…. seriously??? My lord!
IF you’re also with a “steady” you can go to the stag shop and they have “toys” and “plugs” that you can entertain both of yourselves with and eventually help stretch out the vagina.
Hope that helps~!
SP
big69bud420 (interesting name)
personally if i were to encounter your size i would turn the other way…i don’t even agree with SP…8 inches is too long for me..that hurts man!!….but i guess that girl can take it haha (sorry sp)
3″ girth i agree with however…but i wouldn’t be devastated if it were 2″
J
No no no, not 6 inches sideways, 6 inches around, 2 inches sideways.
If you were to take a cloth ruler and make a circle at 6 inch mark, thats be right.
8 inches long and 6 inches wide, I don’t know about you, but I’ve never seen a square penis, lol.
Maybe that’s how legos have sex…
okay that sounds a little bit more tolerable…we were worried there for a minute
What is the biggest/smallest you twentysomething hosts have all ever come across?
I don’t think I’m allowed to respond to *curious* since I’m not a hostess, but I will anyway, and I want to say how much I love the show!
I don’t want to sound dirty giving out details or anything, but when I was in school the first guy I ever fooled around with was really big. It wasn’t as big as Jill’s 13 inch or anything but it was up there, ha ha. I would say he was like 10ish and my smallest was probably almost 8 but not quite.
I feel like I only go for guys that are big but it’s not that way at all. I’m just afraid that after them I will be unable to enjoy a smaller sized guy. Am I alone with this??
your smallest was 8″ Emily???? oh my god…i have had smaller…but i don’t think i can out the smallest and the biggest i have had…i have to keep some things a mystery
oh yeah and thank you for the sweet message emily…so glad to hear you are a fan of the show!!
keep in touch
J
Hi Jill,
First of all, I love your website! Keep it up.
I’m struggling with a huge issue. I met this guy through a friend, who I’ve been with a few months now. He is just perfect: honest, funny, smart, sweet, kind and just very “what you see is what you get”. We have a lot in common. He treats me so well and we get along great. I love everything about him. The only problem is that I feel like he is too small. I can barely feel him. I am a very sexual person and I love sex, but I feel like I almost started to “dread” having sex with him every time (even though I always want to), just because I think about all the awkwardness that surrounds it (“Does he also think it’s bad? I wonder if he notices it, too. I hope he doesn’t start feeling insecure…”).
The biggest I’ve ever been was about 5 inches long, but this guy is probably around 4…I’m scared in general that because I’m fairly tall (5’9”) I will find most average guys “small”. I don’t know what to do, I never thought of myself as someone who could break up with a great guy over his size. I feel like a horrible person because of it. My last relationship was with someone bigger but he didn’t treat me half as well as this guy does. What should I do? Please help!!!
-D
You’re welcome! And I plan to. Since I found out about your show I’ve watched an episode each day at work. Shh.
My smallest was probably more like 7 3/4 or something but I didn’t want to sound technical or anything hahaha. But I’ve only seen three, so I guess I just got bigger sizes by a fluke. I actually had a guy ask me online about a month ago ask me if size matters and I made him tell me his *measurements* and he was smaller than my smallest. Does that even count…?
haha Emily I cannot believe for the life of me that your smallest is 7 3/4″!! to me that is just craziness…i think i would actually consider myself unlucky if i only encountered well endowed men…but that is just me…i like 5-6″…that works for me but everyone is different…i am hoping you don’t get discouraged when you stumble upon someone smaller then 7″ hahaha!!
and i am so glad to hear you watch a show everyday…i like your dedication…besides isn’t work a perfect place to watch a show like mine?? haha kidding…but it does make the work day better and not seem as long i bet!
once again thank you for continuing to watch…keep the posts coming, i love reading viewer feedback
J
Hi Danielle
you have kind of a problem on your hand…but it might not have to be that big of a problem ( that was not a play on words)
the thing I think you have to consider is the fact that you have a fantastic relationship with this guy and he treats you very well and you can trust him and he makes a good partner however i am like you and i am a very sexual person and don’t know if i could stay in a relationship where there is such a disconnect sexually but there are different things you could do to try and make it work. Have you guys tried toys or different positions that allow for more penetration???
and i know it is hard to talk about with your partner and i am not suggesting you sit him down and say ‘i can’t feel you’ but you can talk to him about trying different things…if i were you i would approach it in a way of trying new things to see what works and what doesn’t…afterall it never hurts to spice things up and in the meantime you guys get to have a ton of sex figuring out what works best for you
and keep in mind that you have (by the sounds of it) a fantastic relationship with a wonderful guy and sometimes that can be hard to come by…if he is as wonderful as you say he is then he will be understanding and want to try new things if it makes you happy, besides you aren’t saying you don’t want to have sex with him in fact you are saying you want to have more sex and try new things/positions…what guy wouldn’t want to hear that???
did that help??? i hope so
please keep in touch…would love to hear more feedback!
J
havent measured in a while but is like 6 and 2 around bad ill measure later
that’s not bad
Ok, so it seems like a lot of these people are porn stars or something. I recently learned that the average size is 5.5 inches and I am exactly average. That is measured along the top from tip to base. Why am I the only guy that is admitting to this size when it is the average? Also I am about average girth, 5.5 inches around or about 2 inches sideways. Anyway, my question is, is this enough to satisfy the average woman? I have not had any complaints and I have been with a decent number of women. Are they just shining me on or is my performnce maybe more important than having an 8 inch dick?
so if u and the person u were with were about to have sex and rock hard there like 6 and 2 to 3 around wat goes through your head do u give special instruction and wat age do u think women get over the bigger the better mentality
i dont’ know if it is a certain age that they get over it…i would think some women just prefer it that way but i, myself, have never really agreed with the whole bigger is better…that #($* hurts man!!
Hi Ladies.. My FWB– Bria- asked me to take a look at your site. She lives in the city and loves you. She said my penis is perfect…lol… got 9 with girth and she she can’t get enough…BTW - I am 28 and she is 24. I’ve looked at a couple of episodes with her and I think if you want a real male opinion- drop me a line. I’ve not the size- but the way you work it..
Later- Max
Hey Max!
thanks for checking out the show! hope you like it…we will actually be having our first episode with a male guest in the coming weeks…but will keep you in mind for the next…but the catch is you have to keep watching! haha
and i am so glad Bria loves the show…i would love to hear from her if you can pass on the message!
thanks for taking the time to write!
J
Hi Jill sorry to keep bothering you i finally got around to it last night so u and any other women how would u feel about 5.7 and 4 when erect
4″ in girth????? that would be kind of painful i would think…the length is a good size i think though
wat i think it is that im so self concious because im on the heavier side so it might look smaller to me
and we are always our own biggest critic…but the right girl won’t care about that sort of thing…she will like you for you…i know it sounds incrdibly cliche but it is sooo true
hey girls, enjoy the videos. Crack me up most of the time. I think the size issue is usually with us guys, moreso than the women. I think we think if our penis is bigger, it makes us more of a man. I really don’t have a problem with mine, i’m about 7″ long and 5 inches around. At times i do wish it were a bit thicker, but have never had any complaints about my size. Keep up the good work, you guys are enjoyable to watch.
James! i am so glad you like the show so much…i always love when guys watch, i think it means we have something here!
as for size…maybe i am just awful with measurements but i think 5″ around is pretty big…maybe its cuz i don’t have one myself and therefore don’t measure it, like all you guys clearly do, because a lot of guys on here have left their measurements…is this something all guys do??? just curious..
please keep in touch and let me know what you think of any past or upcoming shows!!
peace
J
i really like this video however can you make another on this topic with women that have different oppinions………….thanks
different opinions on size???
Hey Jill, actually, i think most men have at least once measured themselves just to see how they “measure up” if nothing else. I’ve been measured by two ex girlfriends who were just wanting to know out of curiosity i guess. I found it kind of hot,or almost a turn on for them to want to do it. Your telling me you have never measured an ex lover?? LOL
no i can actually say i have never measured anyone ever!
Why would you have your girlfriend measure you? That’s just strange to me.
Look, Jill and the girls said it themselves, it really doesn’t matter that much. The more attention we pay to the topic, the more it will needlessly affect men’s self confidence and ultimately lead nowhere positive. Baseball bat or toothpick, we’ve got what we’ve got. So just establish great communication with your lady because the ability to be in tune with her body and what she enjoys is what we should all really strive to be endowed with.
hahaha baseball bat or toothpick! too funny
james3 u r def. right about dudes checking the size …….and wen a chick measures me that is def. a complete turn on james3 i 100% agree with u
also ,mj ur right relationship girls dont care but i think some girls might change their opinion if its just a hook up
hey girls,
hows it going? good video & insight. little advise. i talked too my ex gf and she brought up sex. sooner or later the topic of size came up. she was reluctant but finally said she thinks 5 inches is small which makes sense; 6inches being average. the thing thats really embarrassing is that i am only about 4 inches; but more then 6 inches in girth. i’m something like about 1% of males. condoms are tricky. regular size condoms such as lifestyle, durex, trojan are way too tight and uncomfortable despite the size being way too big in length. condoms don’t come in small so i have been wearing trojan magnum large for wider fit. awkward cause girls have a different anticipation when they see the magnum large wrapper and then embarrassing when they only got about handful (pending how small her hands are :S). i was clueless before my convo with my ex and now more conscious. since then, i’ve looked up online positions for guys with a smaller penis & advise. found some stuff one comso & askmen websites. any advise girls? since doing research , i came across a birth defect that resides in men called “micro penis” which is exactly as it sounds. those men would kill too have what i got so i can’t complain. any suggestions or advise is greatly appreciated. ***
hey jamestown
i am so sorry to say that i really don’t know that much about that subject…i guess i would just suggest googling about it…i am sorry i am not more of a help!!
J
dude girth is wats important its not small its just short ur fine
Hi girls,
I really liked the show. My boyfriend is definitely a grower. It starts off around 1 inch and grow to around 7 inches and quite thick. It’s really impressive to see it expand so much.I guess judging by the show this is quite common?
wow you are quite lucky then…he really goes from 1 inch to 7 inches????? that is some serious growing!!
That kinda reminds of these:
http://www.shoparteffect.com/product.asp?lt=d&deptid=5646&pfid=AET04259
Well I haven’t measured him but from past experience he is definitely the smallest I’ve seen soft but one of the biggest when he reaches full size!!! I think it is quite fun to watch it grow so much but I’d say wouldn’t want it any bigger 7 inches
yeah over 7 inches would be painful for me…i don’t think i would enjoy that as much as 5 or 6″
hey jill i just wanna say i think its great u r so honnest i watch your show all the time …but i think the best episode ever is the size one you need to make more!!!
size videos i mean …i am so rude please forgive me u tell us veiwers so much bout you i should tell u a little somtin bout me
, my name is dan i live in nj and have a slightly above average(5.5) penis size tho i have nvr measured my girth ;D -maybe if i feel like it ill give u the real numbers but i have to keep somethings a mystery…….
alright noted…this topic is actually the most requested on the site so we might as well take another crack at it…can’t tell you when it will be up but it’s coming
sweet deal its a pretty interesting topic i think it really interests guys more than girls …k thanx jill love ya
jill- i was wondering if you could help me with something about size, i am between 6 and 7 inch. and was wondering if it is sexy to have a bulg. what do you think is sexies a huge bug in breifs? or hidden away in a pair of boxers?
Hey Dan The Guido
I some girls check out the “bulge” .. I’ve been guilty of playing a game called “Guestimation”… which primarily relied on the bulge. But then again I was 20 at the time.
Me personally I think guys look sexiest in a pair of Boxer Briefs. But not the kind with the long leg, the kind that sit like short shorts…
Calvin makes a great pair!
AND size does matter! It’s SO TRUE! Since that episode, I was having sex with an “average” guy that was a grower… but then it’d shrink due to his drinking. (shame)
But I’m not even counting it as sex now, because A- it started off hard then went soft
B- I could only feel it for 2 secs
C- didn’t get off…
Here’s all boys
If you’re planning a soiree with a special someone, don’t drink your face off, or masturbate too much… some girls are DTF!
i half agree with Stacey…size matters to a certain extent, but i don’t think it matters THAT much..unless it is too big and just plain scary…i tap out on anything over 8″
as for bulge…i don’t look for it but have noticed it before if some dude’s bulge is staring me in the face haha…and as for the boxer/briefs debate….i prefer guys in boxers or boxer briefs but not just straight up briefs…to me those are kind of creepy
hope that helps!!
J
thanks guys…btw stacy i know what u mean about the calvins i have 3 pair myself lol however im sorry to say jill that one of them are breifs…though the have a pouch in the front for “the package” so there not technically just breifs and the show off my “bulg” pretty well…still it be nicer if i was more of a shower..but im not complaining..at least im about 4 soft and not a “mushroom cap” like april said haha!!!
Hey Jill,
I posted a comment about 2 months ago…
Well, I just wanted to let you know that I’m still with this guy, and the sex is actually much better. I realized that he’s actually quite longer than I thought he was, just not very thick. In any case, he’s more…inthusiastic than my exes. I realized how much he LOVES pleasing me, in every way possible, and I love that. It really gets me going. Besides that, he’s still the same amazing guy he always has been, who’s so good to me sometimes I wonder if I really deserve it, and you can’t get that with penile implants.
Keep up with the great job you’re doing with the show!
-Danielle
Jill C, you are SO good-looking, I can barely watch the videos for watching YOU. Sorry if I veered from the topic being discussed. My bad.
Hi Danielle!
I am so glad to hear everything with the bf is going so well…afterall i think how a guy treats you is WAY more important then the size of his penis…i am glad you are so happy, so good to hear!!
keep in touch
J
hahaha thanks Matt
hey Girls,
i just want to thank you for the video. you all portrayed a high level of honesty & positivity. it is great to catch a bunch of females’ opinions. i am twenty two years old, and just like many men, i have been insecure about having a small penis (4 inches hard). it is hard enough to approach attractive women such as yourselves, it is so much harder when you have a insecurity with intimacy. one of the larges was the worry i’ll be with a women who has experience a male twice my size or more along with the concern such as Danielle pointed out about not feeling smaller guys.
then i crushed my insecurity. this past month was horrible. i got with the girl i been seeing the past 6 months. she performed oral sex on me despite her claim of never doing it before. although i am shorter then average, i was surprised she swallowed me like a tooth pick as i am bigger in girth then length. this was the most pleasurable sexual experience i have ever had. then disaster game.
a couple days later i noticed a rash & marks on my penis. i went mental. i went to just about every doctor in the city & the hospital. i got tested & they all came back negative. i have never been more relieved. i was so insecure before but this broke it for me. i prayed to God have a second chance, to totally appreciate what i have. it would seem, human nature takes life for granted & all the things we possess. it is when we think we lose something we grow new appreciation. i guarantee every man who has such an insecurity about his penis would change how he feels if her were to catch an S.T.D. or cancer or E.D. you only live once. There are two things I’ve learned in life: find someone to love and live everyday as if it were your last. thanks again girls for the positive feed back & advise. with the positive feed back from you girls, my best female friend, & this experience i have shaken this negative insecurity for good. thanks again. girls. cheers.
-James
ps: to Danielle or any other female concerned about sex with a smaller man should checkout:
www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html
all the best people!
hey james
afterall this friday’s show is episode #69!!
thanks for such a sweet post, i am so glad you find the show helpful! it makes my day when i hear from viewers who have found our episodes helpful in their personal situations! and i am so glad to hear something good came out of your horrible experience and your past insecurities…and to be honest i don’t think 4 inches is that bad! i think you will find this week’s episode quite appealing…’size’ might have something to do with it
J
hey Jill,
i appreciate the encouraging words. i love the positivity you & the girls bring. i have found the most embarrassing events in my life were playing into my insecurity. it amazes me how it takes something terrible to see the light at the end of the tunnel. what is it that makes you all come up your episode topics? i met a girl on a vacation & i say today still she’s the closest thing i have met to the perfect girl for me. everything was so pefect & it seemed to all happen without much effort. things fell into place. the girl i saw, it was almost like a love at sight sorta thing. not quite though. we acknowledged each other. she was with a friend making it hard to approach. the other girl she was with was a little older and portrayed the authoritative vibe. turns it, this was the girls mother. haha, if anyone had a video camera watching me approach this girl and her mom on vacation would have had a hell of a time laughing. smoothest thing i have ever did. but yah, the level of chemistry, intelligent, attraction, common interests (philosophy, psychology, religion, neurology, law, etc.), and so much more. we both couldn’t be happier. it was short term seeing i live in Canada & she lives in England. we talk still & plan to travel sometime in the future. i think it has to be difficult as Jill, Danielle, and some of the other women have said about if a guys smaller and the sex isn’t at par. faking it though is not a good idea. i am already aware of the situation as are man men. if two people love each other they can go through the motions and experience every aspect of their sex life till they find what works best for them. i mean, if i am having sex with a woman, i love her, and i’ll be open with her as i would want her be with me. be honest i guess is the best way to go about things. we live in the technology age where information is every where so research is great too. a friend of mine, he was seeing a girl & things were so great as i mentioned with that girl i spoke of. the thing is when they started having sex within the first two weeks of there relationship, things declined. my friend is a very sexual creature, the girl had bad experience with a sexually possessive ex boyfriend & things declined. it also so happen that this girl had a 10 inch dildo. he may have exaggerated a bit but basically he grew insecure and out of the relationship which is sad. i would be willing to work through things & accomplish much with someone. this terrible experience i have had has made me appreciate so much more in life. you never know how great life is till disaster strikers. appreciation is so important. i spent hours in the hospital again cause i freaked out again. so happy to get good results again & know i can move on with my life. Jill and all the others, i really appreciate everything you have all did. you all have changed my life for the better. i cannot thank you all enough. again i wish you all the best, cheers again & God bless.
James
thanks for such a sweet message James…i am so glad we can help you in any way!
Hey All!
This definitely dealt with what alot males think, you could even call it the elephant in the room. It was nice to hear the 4 ladies chatting ip up & giving good & various opinions on the matters.
I believe it was Sam who said, & I am paraphrasing, whatever size you are, it is what it is. You cant change it, alter it or nothing. I couldnt agree with her more on that because your built a certain way, thats the end of the story. I think eveything really starts mentally. IF the guy says oh my, she will laugh at the size, then you will ALWAYS have a problem. However, if you come to grips with it, accept what you have & focus on her, then it will not be an issue.
I think like everything in life, confidence is everything. If you exude confidence and think positively, good things will happen. For me, I am not the laregest & I am not the smallest either. I am average and I am perfectly happy with that and have never wished to be bigger. I think because of that, I have always enjoyed intimacy & enjoy using what I have.
At the end of the day, if your a guy, your primary focus should be on pleasing & plesauring her by any means neccessary. If you can do that, then I dont think size will ever be an issue. If you let it get in your head, then it will as you will have doubts & doubts will creap to your penis & it will become a domino effect.
In closing, it will always be in MOST guys head that size is an issue. However, hearing these 4 beautiful ladies confirm that it isnt, should give a big sigh of relief to the male population out there.
Once again, if you accept what you have & bring it each & everytime, then the only thing you will have to worry about is if you can handle the demand